breakin' the mold since eighty-eight, I am crysteena.
this is completely for my own record…
- Boundaries are good. In order to love yourself, you need to respect yourself! This means you need to demand respect from others. Making social and emotional boundaries with people is vital to your health. If you don’t have enough self-respect to make boundaries then you will hurt yourself. Hurt people, hurt people.
-No one can read your mind. Giving the silent treatment will just worsen the situation. It was a relief when someone told me that I had offended them after they had given me the cold shoulder for three days. I didn’t have a clue, and it was all a misunderstanding anyway. Basically, no one knows how you feel unless you talk about it.
- Watch out for you. Let’s face it, no one cares about you. I mean of course God does, but He is the only one you really have on your side. Take care of yourself, get enough sleep, exercise, say no, use time management skills, smile at the mirror…ect. If you never fall in love with yourself, no one else will.
